Cleaning out

I've been fucked a few times and loved it, but rarely do it because of hangups about things not being clean enough. What should I know that will insure that I don't make a mess?
-Steve

The first thing you should realize is that shit happens, literally. There's no real way to prevent every ounce of crap from finding its way into a fuck session. Tops know this and unless you just didn't make any preparations at all, most are pretty forgiving about a little mess.

If you're completely paranoid about things, the best bet might be a "female condom" (FC). It's a latex sheath with a small rubbery ring on one end and a larger one on the other. You (or your Top) squeeze the small ring and slide it up your ass, then push it in until the larger ring is right at your cheeks. The Top then sticks his cock through the larger ring and fucks away, everything being contained in the sheath that's inside you. Two hints: lube the outside of the FC just enough to get it in you, but lube the inside of it with plenty of slick stuff. This will keep the sheath in place inside you and let the Top's cock slide easily. The benefit of all this is that the sheath stays in place, so you feel the pumping of the cock, but you don't have the "plunger effect" that can pull unwanted stuff down into your rectum. The bigger bonus is that since you're providing the protection, the Top can fuck you without having to use his own condom. This is great for those guys like me who love to fuck, but have a difficult time keeping it hard with a condom on. The drawback is that you will look silly as all hell with this ringed thing sticking out of your ass. Small price to pay, if you ask me.

If you don't have any FC available or you still want to do it the old-fashioned way, here are some tips about cleaning out from my own sub. They seem to work pretty well, since he's usually clean even after hours of playing.

Daddy Jim

Here are a few thoughts from my experience with cleaning out prior to getting fucked.

There is no magic to cleaning out, unless, of course, one wants to use the chemicals that clean you out from head to toe such as before a colonoscopy! That, however, is a prescription and takes a day to run its course. There are also OTC meds that will give one a mild case of diarrhea, but I don't recommend them.

I have found that the deeper the water goes, the longer it takes to extract and it always seems to pick up other matter on its way to the outlet. I tend to like the shower shot, but it takes time and, generally, gets water pretty deep. That is especially true if you bend over and let the water flow "upwards" into the gut. It will take a little extra time to get it all to come back down. If time is short and the "inserted" water is late coming down, it is not likely going to run clear and may come out during the fuck. There may not be a lot of solid matter, but it will most likely have some color and be very liquid.

For a quick clean out when fucking may occur shortly after cleaning out, the Fleet enemas or the shower shot with a weak stream of water may work just as well since it only cleans the lower part of the bowel. If the water does not go too deeply and only cleans the lower bowel, you are likely to remain relatively clean when coupled with lube. If the rectum area retains too much water from the enema, some lubes will breakdown in the water left in the rectum area and, again, things may get very liquid and runny.

I understand the issue with wanting to be clean, but unless you are willing to spend a great deal of time with repeated enemas that go deeply into you, I know of  no guarantee or sure way that you will be squeaky clean. I don't like the messiness either, but sometimes it is simply the unintended consequences of being a sub. Always have towels, etc., under you since it is not uncommon for lube to drip even if you are squeaky clean.

I like to clean out deeply mainly because our play sessions seldom start with a fuck, so I try to clean as deeply as possible so that the other matter that is moving down will not get to the rectum area right away and I'm still relatively clean by the end of a session that can last several hours.

This is all my personal experience and may not work for anyone else. I have not read any accounts on the Internet about the best way to give/take an enema, so there could be some info that is far better than the above.

sub will

Additional tip from a reader: if doing an enema, lie on your left side. This makes the enema more effective.

Of course, getting an enema while hung upside-down from a chain hoist in the Top's playroom would probably work, too!
Daddy Jim