What's the best way to clean out an asshole for play? I've given him enemas until the water runs clear but a lot of times that changes as we get really into the scene. It seems like dirty water will seep out as the scene progresses.
-Ed
Unless you're into scat play, few things can ruin the mood of a hot session faster than some unwelcome smells or dirtiness associated with a hole that isn't clean. How you clean is largely dependent on how long you plan to play and what activities you plan to do.
If you're just going to go right to fucking and be done with it, then you really only need to clean out the area where the dick is going to go. If you're going to be playing for several hours, or if you're going to be fisting, then you'll need to deep clean.
For shallow cleaning, you can use a squeeze bulb cleanout device commonly sold in sex stores. Fill the bulb with lukewarm water, attach the nozzle, shove it up the hole and squeeze. A couple of times should do the trick. You can also use a hot water bottle with an enema hose attached or numerous other items built for enemas. When you're getting rid of the water, though, just sit on the toilet until you've stopped passing the water. If you stay there longer, you'll be moving more stuff down into the lower regions and you'll have to start over. Also, when you're doing a shallow clean, stand upright. This keeps all the water in the final portion of the intestine so it will all be expelled. If you bend over, water can get farther up inside you and it won't find its way back down until later... most likely while you're playing.
For deep cleaning, you'll need some time and patience. Enemas are most effective when you can allow the water to enter you slowly, preferably in small doses. Lie on your left side and let the water enter you for a few seconds, then shut it off. Wait for any cramping to subside, then let a few seconds worth of water in again. Continue until you are full, but not miserably so. Allow the water to stay in you for a few minutes before expelling it. Repeat if necessary. It may take several trips to the bathroom before all of the water has found its way south again, so plan for that time as well.
You can use a "shower shot" nozzle attachment in your shower for a quicker cleaning, but be very careful. Turn the water on before shoving it up your ass, making sure that the water flows but doesn't shoot out too fast. Too much water pressure can cause damage to your body.
Also, you can use store-bought enema kits, but do NOT use douche products. The chemicals in them do you no extra good, and they can actually irritate the membranes and make them more susceptible to STDs.
If you want to really prepare your hole and you know far enough in advance that you'll be playing, you can put yourself on a liquid diet for a couple days beforehand. Take some laxatives or stool softeners to flush out what's already in there, then the liquid diet won't put much extra into your system. You'll be clean as a whistle, especially if you do one last enema before playtime.
Keep in mind, though, no matter which cleanout procedure you use, you are removing beneficial bacteria from your bowels along with all the shit. After cleaning out, eat some probiotic yogurt (like Activia) or take probiotic supplements to get the bacteria back into your system after playtime is done. This will help in digestion and prevent problems in the days afterward. Also, you will be a bit dehydrated after a deep cleaning, so drink lots of water afterward as well.
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